HOW TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IF UNDER THE AGE OF 30

Boys it’s very normal to doubt yourself if you’re not working that hard

Connor McGregor has a very famous quote that’s basically saying "Action removes doubt”

So if you’re doubting yourself right now, it’s because you’re not putting enough work in

You’re not taking enough action

Now some of you might say “Yeah, but I don’t know what to work on”

Now, the reason why I’ve never really liked that excuse too much is just because even if you don’t know how to get rich,

That’s not a good enough excuse because you can be doing SOMETHING that is better than nothing

And something will eventually lead to everything

It will lead to the answer

Does that make sense?

So, what you need to do is sit there and think:

“What do I know that I should do”

So for example right now, I know that going for a run is always better than not going for a run

Right?

Like why would it not be good to be fitter?

Cardiovascularly wise you know? Why would it not be good to go for a run?

You’re not gonna lose gains although there’s all these people saying you’re gonna lose gains

No, you won’t.

If you’re eating enough food, you’re not gonna lose a bit of gains going on a 10 minute run

It’s just gonna give you an amazing feeling

You’re gonna have endorphins

Dopamine pumping all throughout your body

You’re gonna feel amazing

Right?

You’re gonna be fitter

Leaner

You’re gonna be stronger because if your cardio is up, then you can lift more reps in the gym a lot of the time

Like on those moves with a bit more lighter weight

Instead of doing 14 reps on a set, you’re gonna do 16

You’re just fitter—you’re stronger

There’s like a term for it in the gym world, it’s like gpb or something

General preparedness something—I’ve forgot by now because it’s been many years since I’ve studied that shit

But the point is, is that the fitter you are

You have more potential to get stronger even

So anyway,

It’s never bad to go for a run

It’s also never bad to go to the gym and lift weights

It’s also never bad to talk to a new girl

Like why would it be bad to go talk to a new girl in the street if you’re single?

So if you’re walking, why would it be bad to talk to a new girl?

You might learn something

It’s an experience

You might end up having fun

You might end up going on a date with her

You might end up having a nice pleasant conversation

I remember when I used to work in Debenhams (which is a retail store in the UK by the way)

So I used to work there when I was 17-18

And I remember I was speaking to so many people back then

That’s when I was in that era of just like “Be positive talking to everyone”

And I was reading some of these Tony Robbins books,

And he was always talking about being positive and all that stuff

And I was on that positivity wave for a bit right,

Not overly like a hippy junky, but just talk to people

Be friendly, and you’ll get good energy back

And it’s AMAZING how true that is

You give someone a sincere compliment—watch how it change’s everything

Sincere is the key word

You have to ACTUALLY mean the compliment

Right?

Because how many times in life do you see someone’s shoes and think they’re actually cool?

You don’t say “Yo bro you got cool shoes”

Just yesterday I was in the Uber and I told the Uber driver, I was like:

“Bro, you’ve got sick tattoos bro”

He was like Ah thank you man

Like that’s the kind of stuff… He’ll remember that for the next week

Now sure he might get that a lot because they are cool tattoos

But the point I’m making, is that maybe no one tells him

Even though a lot of people maybe actually think he has cool tattoos,

Maybe not THAT many people tell him

Or maybe not that many people in the Uber tell him

Maybe it’s more when he’s walking outside

You know what I’m trying to say? The point is he’ll probably remember

And then it just creates good energy around you

All these things

So even if you don’t know how to get rich

You do know that it’s good to go on a run,

You do know that eating steak is better than eating burgers,

And pizza,

You also know that sleeping 8 hours is better than sleeping 2 hours

You know that not smoking weed is better than smoking weed

And you know that becoming an alcoholic is not good

And you know that jerking off is not good

And you know that watching TV is not going to do anything good for you

And you know that consuming, consuming, consuming and never focusing on production is also bad

Like you all know these things already right?

Just like you know you shouldn’t punch a wall as hard as you can

Because you’re gonna break your hand

You’re gonna break your fucking wrist, cut something

Nothing is gonna happen besides you hurting yourself

Right?

So you know that nothing good can come from punching a wall

Just like you know not to jump off a cliff

Just like you know you shouldn’t jump off a balcony

Right?

Just like you know you know you shouldn’t start assaulting random people on the street

Like you already know what NOT to do

And you already know WHAT to do

Now yes, there is a lot of nuance to these points, you know in terms of the order in which you should do things

How much you should prioritize certain things—sure

But you’re gonna learn these things from experiences anyway bro

So why are you doubting yourself so much?

Why are you sitting there telling yourself “Bro, I don’t know what to do”

You already roughly know what to do

And you know that you wanna make money

But you don’t know how to make money

Well here’s what I always say to people

JUST MOVE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION

As long as you’re directionally correct,

Instead of absolutely correct,

You’ll be okay

Okay?

And what this basically means is:

Just move in the right direction

Don’t try and be specifically

Or absolutely

Or completely

Correct

Because you’re not gonna be able to know what is the specific answer, a)

And b) it takes too much time to work out what the specific answer is

So it’s just much quicker to just begin and move in the right direction

And once you’re in the right direction

You’ll find clues

And tips

And tricks on the way to help you get there quicker

There’s a couple of analogies I can give you, but you know that game hot or cold

Where you’re blind folded or something, or your eyes are closed,

And you have to touch something… I don’t even know what the game is but I remember this game hot or cold where you have to close your eyes

And just walk until you have to reach this target or some shit

All I know is this rough idea right,

I’m sure you know what I mean by hot or cold

You close your eyes and walk and someone is saying cold cold cold,

Colder colder colder,

WARMER

Warmer warmer hot!

Hot hot hot, and you know the closer you get to hot the closer you get to your target

So you’ve just got to keep doing what you’re doing

Which is walking in the right direction,

And THAT’S THE EXACT SAME THING IN LIFE

AS LONG AS YOU START MOVING IN THAT HOT DIRECTION

ON THE WAY

THE UNIVERSE IS GONNA TELL YOU

“BRO HOTTER, HOT HOT HOT”

You know?

And then you’re gonna get closer

Just like the universe can tell you cold cold cold

“BRO COLD! COLD!”

You just have to LISTEN

Listen to when the universe is speaking to you

Listen to the universe,

Right?

JUST LISTEN

If you listen to the universe you’ll be alright

That’s it

-Hassan Haider

aka Mr. Overpaid

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