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DOOR 2 DOOR SALES + UNIVERSITY PART 1
Alright boys
This e-mail is going to be about when I started door-door sales, being kicked out of uni, going to Bulgaria, my feelings in that moment, and how it’s going to help you guys
Because how I felt is how you guys might currently be feeling
And just a bunch of different stuff so there might be a lot of side points and I’m going to split it into parts so this will be a bit long
So a lot of you guys know I got kicked out of uni
After I got kicked out of uni, my first job was a door-to-door sales job selling boilers
A lot of you boys know I was traveling the world after a while so I’m going to talk about the whole shit
I remember when I got kicked out of uni I was obviously super frustrated, angry, annoyed
I know you guys have heard me talk about this a million times
But, something I don’t talk about a lot which I think I should is one of the most frustrating points, or aspects about these things is…
Everyone just almost thinks you’re a weirdo because they don’t understand what you’re doing
So I had a good friend of mine say “You can’t sell boilers forever”
I had lots of people saying to me “What are you actually doing”
And they almost look down on you in a way
Because it’s like, everyone is so used to uni this, uni that, like you HAVE to get a degree right,
And if you don’t have a degree you’re almost seen as a weirdo
So no one understood what I was doing
I was doing forex
I was doing this d2d sales job
Just trying to make money
Trying to learn how to make money online
The whole lot
And everyone just kinda thought I was a weirdo like wtf is Hassan doing,
He’s not really doing much, he’s just wasting his life
And it’s kinda bad because it kinda stains your reputation in a way right,
It’s not nice to have people think “Oh, this guy is just a loser, he’s not doing much”
I don’t think they thought I was a loser, but it’s just a bunch of people who probably thought Hassan was at uni, a great uni,
Doing a good course
You know he’s smart, he was doing all these things and now he’s just working some random sales job
A lot of people probably thought wtf is he doing right,
“He’s not in a very good position”
And that’s just annoying when you’re a very ambitious person
You wanna do well
You wanna like… Prove to yourself that you can be successful in all these things and everyone is kinda doubting you
It's kind of like… Annoying
But it also motivates you
But yeah, it’s also like a lot of you guys need to hear this because you’re on this path right now where you’re not actually successful at the moment
But other people are calling you deluded because you haven’t actually become successful yet
So I just wanna kinda give you guys some points on that
When you’re on your path and YOU KNOW you’re going to be successful—don’t let these people’s doubts and criticism of you actually get to you
When you pull it off, THEY’LL ALL SHUT UP
There’s a brief period, depending how quickly it takes you
6 months, a year, 2 years, 3 years,
Before you actually pull it off and people aren’t gonna think you’re weird
That you didn’t know what you were doing
They’re not gonna understand your journey
JUST IGNORE THEM
Because so many people are on this path and they’re not going to make it
And if you know you’re one of those special ones where you know you’ll actually pull it off
Just stick to your path
Stick to your journey
It doesn’t matter if you’re 18 right now, 24, or 29—it doesn’t matter
It’s the same process right
At the end of the day, all those ages I’ve just mentioned are super fucking young
In the grand grand scheme of things
Most people those ages are fucking losers
So when you’re going against the norm
When you’re doing something unique
OF COURSE people are gonna say “Yeah, you’re not gonna do it. You’re deluded”
Because everything they’ve ever seen… You know, doesn’t indicate that someone can pull it off
They’ve only seen losers their whole life. They’ve never seen someone who pulled it off
Think of all the friends I had in school, all the friends I had in uni… They’ve never seen anyone become as successful as me
They’ve never seen it with their own eyes
How can I call them all haters and dickheads for not believing in me when they’ve just never seen it!
Right,
If we know we have that vision to do more and be more, we’re lucky
We’re blessed!
Is it God’s blessing? I don’t know what blessing it is right
It’s something though
All of you reading this are obviously blessed to some degree, otherwise you wouldn’t think you could do more
The reason why most people don’t try in the first place bro is because they don’t think they can do more
If I told you right now—go run a marathon in x amount of time, 3 hours, 4 hours,
You might be unsure if you could do it right, you’d be like “Uh I don’t know about that one mate, that’s quite quick. I’m not sure.”
But if I told you there’s a million pounds, and you do it in under let’s say 3 hours, you get a million pounds
NEW MONEY Canada 🇨🇦
But if you don’t do it, you have to pay a million
I wouldn’t take that deal because I’m pretty sure I can’t do it in 3 hours, like zero percent chance, so I’m not taking that deal
In general, humans don’t attempt something they know they can’t do
It’s like that saying “He who thinks he can and he who thinks he can’t are both usually right”
It’s completely true
Your friends who don’t believe in themselves, they’re right! They can’t pull it off
Why are you blaming them?
They just cant do it because they think they cannot
Don’t waste your time fam
You can’t convince someone into thinking a different way just using words, it doesn’t work
Humans naturally have a shield against other people’s persuasion right
If you’re trying to someone purely with words, it’s very very difficult right
“Do this!”
“No.”
You have to show them through results
Pull up in a Lambo, then they’ll take what you say more seriously
And even then, you get to a point where you genuinely stop caring
All the people I wanted to help when I was on the come up, I’ve lost COMPLETE interested in wanting to help them
Because one, with a lot of them I just stopped becoming friends and maybe 1 or 2 people I still speak to here and there
But two, I really am over it
Like I just don’t care anymore because I’ve learned in life that it doesn’t work
Let people do what they want
“Live and let live”
Right?
You should only be talking to the people and only connecting with the people who think like you
That’s why NEW MONEY is so powerful because you can just connect with all the people in the group
Who all think like you and you know think like you
But in real life when you talk to people from school or in uni or your work place, or the gym, or here or there
It’s just a loosing fucking battle
And I don’t like loosing battles
It’s just not worth the time, nor worth the energy
Like why are you playing those games bro
There’s just no point… Like WHY? It makes no fucking sense AT ALL
Right
The thing is you do it because you really want your friend to be successful and stuff
What you need to do is realize bro that people naturally grow apart as they get older anyway
Like, most likely that person won’t be your friend because you’re gonna climb up to the top and you’re gonna make millions and millions
You’re gonna start making money online, you’re gonna start traveling the world
You’re probably not gonna be friends with them if they’re still stuck in the 9-5 job and you’re traveling the world doing all these cool things
You’re just naturally gonna grow apart—it’s normal
So you’re wasting all this time trying to carry this person up the mountain with you
And by doing that you’re not even gonna make it up the mountain yourself
And if you’re failing not making it up the mountain they’re gonna be like “I told you bro you couldn’t do it”
When the whole time the reason why you couldn’t do it is because you tried to bring them with you!
Right?
SO FUCK THAT!
Climb to the top of the mountain, and if they wanna come to the top, well they can start climbing themselves and you can give them a hand
You can reach down and bring them back up,right
But yeah man it’s just a lot of wasted time because I remember I used to be sat there like “Everyone thinks I’m doing this, I’m doing that, and they don’t understand what I’m doing”
I would try and persuade them into my way of thinking
Persuade them to understand what I’m doing so maybe they can help me, and we can make money together
“We can do this and we can do that”
IT’S JUST A WASTE OF FUCKING TIME
And I’m telling you as well once you naturally start to level up—it gives you perspective of how the world works
Because money does change people
For the better and the worse
So as you start making more money, you learn more about human nature
That’s why I actually like making money so much, or at least one of the reasons because,
The more money I make, I start learning how the world actually works
Do you see what I’m saying?
So yeah I’ve just learned so so much
And I’m just going to leave it at that in regards to that point
There’s just no point in trying to help people too much
People either have it in them or they don’t
I really do believe that
And it’s like you only have so much time in this world
If you’re there sat there worrie about this person and that person
They’re all just getting distracted by trivial bullshit
Like 95% of society gets distracted by a bit of drugs
A bit of drinking
A bit of television—TV shows, movies
Their girlfriend arguing with them about some bullshit that happened earlier in the workplace
Her boss was shouting at them and now she’s taking it out on you
The whole dynamic is just FUCKED
The normal 9-5 life just always kind of repelled me—like MASSIVELY
It just gave me the “ick” lol
It made me think “Wtf, this is disgusting”
The whole dynamic is shit man
-Hassan Haider
aka Mr. Overpaid