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DOOR 2 DOOR SALES + UNIVERSITY PART 2
Boys I hope you guys enjoyed part 1 of this e-mail sequence, so lets get straight into part 2
You have a normal man and you have a normal woman in a relationship,
And because inflation has been FUCKED,
MOST men can’t provide for the whole household
So now the woman is working as well right, “My career, my career” blah blah blah
Now you have the man and the woman working
If the woman is just in the workplace all day in some office—it just makes her more masculine
Because you kind of have to be when you’re working a job
So she’s just becoming really masculine
You’ve been feminized because you’re just being told what to do all day
Right,
And it kind of just fucks up the dynamic—it fucks up the polarity if you wanna use that word
And then you just feel like a bitch
You’re not gonna feel like a G,
You’re not gonna feel like a man
She’s feeling more aggressive, more manly because she’s having to work all day—she’s stressed and all that kind of shit right
And then it just ruins the dynamic when she’s telling you what to do at home—bickering and arguing over such little things
And deep down she kind of resents you because you can’t provide for her
She resents herself almost for not being hot enough so she can get a better man
The whole dynamic is just fucked up and I’ve never wanted to be in that position
I’ve always thought that’s just horrible, right
I just can’t imagine that normal life of living in a small house in England or America
Just some small house after uni with a woman, working a job and just having a kid at an early age
Like where’s the adventure?
Where’s the fun life with your boys?
When have you just ever get to go to Poland in the middle of the year
When have you ever get to just fly at a moment’s notice—wherever you want, whenever you want, and with whomever you want
Right?
You could just never do these things
Even in uni I wasn’t that guy just going to every lecture like “Oh my God I have to take this seriously”
I was the guy just seeing girls, having fun, staying up late, just being a fucking idiot
Like that’s all I did right
So my first year of uni was fucking amazing because I did nothing
I did no work
I remember there was this course that was 25% of the year and I was like fuck it, SACRIFICE IT
I’ll just nail the other 75% and just get full marks on that and I’ll be fine
You know… That was my logic
In the end, I didn’t get the 75% because I didn’t study for that either
But that’s beside the point
THE POINT IS… I just never gave a fuck about that
I just knew deep down that was bullshit
I remember always telling my mom “Yeah uni is bullshit, uni is bullshit”
Like I just knew it man
You just know deep down in your soul something is bullshit and not many people get that feeling
And the people who do, NEVER TAKE ACTION ON IT
You have to be the kind of guy who understands it’s bullshit and says “Okay, a lot of people out there probably think it’s bullshit but how many are gonna act on it?”
VERY FEW
That’s why there’s very little competition
Yeah obviously if you’re trying to be the best in the world at something, it’s going to be very competitive
But if you’re just trying to be in the top 1%—in America that’s like $400k bro
That’s like what $35k in a month?
Like it really isn’t high bro, it’s really not that high
It really IS doable right
If you make $1,000 dollars or something like that a day, you’re in the top 1% in America
The richest country in the world
Like that’s so doable
So so doable
You’re top 1% in richness—in how much money you’re making cash flow
IN AMERICA
So if you go in every other country in the world, you’re very very rich
You’re top 0.1% or top 0.001% depending on the country you go to
Like that just sounds so appealing
Or that should at least sound so appealing to you if you’re not making that much money at the moment
You should be sat there like, licking your lips thinking “Raahh I have a super big opportunity of hitting that very very soon if I get my shit together, if I have the right network…”
All these kinds of things right?
It’s very very doable
This is what I say to the boys in NEW MONEY all the fucking time
Even in our latest event a lot of people were asking me like “Hassan, you know… This is my current situation, how do I get to the next position”
All these things,
And the biggest thing I told them even before they finished the sentence was like “Bruv, you’re closer than you fucking think”
Because the way some of them would describe their situation was like if they were still a long long time away from hitting their xyz goal
I was like “Bro it’s very very soon, all you have to do is tweak these things, these 3 things and you can get there”
Do you know what I’m saying
Like once you realize how close you are from hitting your goals it makes you it much more exciting
If I say to you “Yeah, you’re gonna live in a big mansion with your friends and hoes in 40 years”
You’re gonna be like “Wtf man I’m 65 by then, I don’t know about that, it’s a long way away. I could be dead before then, I don’t know”
But if I say you can have that in 1 year, 2 years, in half a year—right,
LITERALLY, YOU CAN
“You’ll be like rahh like, 6 months goes quick”
6 MONTHS AGO BRUV IT WAS FUCKING JANUARY
I’m not sure about you guys but I remember January like yesterday
That felt literally like yesterday
NEW MONEY boys making moves, living together and improving their lives together
6 months, especially as you get older and older, goes by quicker and quicker
People say that all the time
Like If I went from 10 to 20 or 20 to 30—I’m 25 right now and the last 5 years ago went by quick
So I know I’ll be 30 very very soon
10 to 20 literally felt like my whole life
So time goes quick and each decade goes by quicker than the decade before
That’s how life works
That’s how time works
It plays tricks on you right—because time is an illusion
So yeah man I just remember for so long I was there just letting other people’s doubts affect me
Like ahh this is just bullshit, like what AM I doing
Fucking knocking on hundreds of doors for 100 pound a week, 200 pound a week
400 pound a week at times
Like it was fucking bullshit right
It’s very easy to let other people’s doubts and thoughts get to your head
But that’s why you have to keep working without thinking too much
Doubt yourself as much as you want
Let people fuck with your mind as much as you want
But as long as you manage to turn up every day, eventually, you just start outworking that doubt
Eventually, you’ll get to the point where you’re like “Wait a second… I’m 20. I’m a G. I’m confident AS FUCK. I’m very very good at sales.
I’ve got very good work ethic, I’m disciplined, I have a good head on my shoulders (right), and I want to be successful. I want to work hard.
I’m likable. Whenever I meet someone more important than me I treat them with respect.
Everything is going fine. All the relationships in my life are going great.
I can do this.”
You know, it gives you more confidence when you just keep waking up and tell yourself I can do this
And then things just start blending from you having doubts like even if you don’t know how to start you can say,
“Ok this is the path I’m gonna take, this will make me more money”, you know…
And once you begin you’ll start discovering things as you go along
Because so many of you don’t know anything about business
You don’t know how to make money
And I can tell you how because the questions you ask me are very very—almost naive
Because it’s the questions I used to ask
All a business is, is something that just makes money
Right, so then it’s like okay “What do I sell?”
Well then, who says you have to be the one selling it?
And then that just gives you more ideas, and then you say okay
What about if I bring more customers into this business?
Well that’s just basically affiliate marketing, and then that gives you an idea
And then you think okay, “Why can’t I just hire/bring 3 people into this company, who then bring more customers into this company and I just get a better total affiliate deal from the total boss/manager”, whatever you want to call it right
You just start getting all these ideas naturally
Then you start thinking about sales teams and about hiring and systems in general
You start thinking about de-linking your own time from the money because you’ll realize that there’s only 24hrs in a day
So even if you get paid x amount per hour, you’re always going to be limited with how much money you make
If you hire people or if you create systems you’ll basically make unlimited money
So you just start learning all these things as time goes on
But the best thing you can do is just get started with something
All the questions in the NEW MONEY event were kind of the same thing
Of course you had some questions that were more specific,
But in general my advise to everything was just DO MORE
Get more experience
Right?
And all the people who took away the most from the event, they we’re the ones who made all the connections
They were the ones who really got stuck in and made friends for life
That’s why NEW MONEY is so powerful because you leave the event or a live call on Zoom
You leave feeling understood
And it gives your soul energy
People always talk about “Hassan, how do you always have energy, health this health that…”
Or how to just feel better
The best way to have more energy—is for your soul to feel better
If deep down in your soul you’re just thinking “Okay, I feel good about this. I feel good about that…”
That’s what gives you UNLIMITED ENERGY
UNRIVALED ENERGY
Right
If you’re sat there like “Oh i’ve got a bit more energy because I took pre-workout”
That’s not the same as deep down in your soul being very very happy or pleased with something
Like you just met 3 people and now you’re going to move in with them and they’re gonna be your business partners and you’ve just found people who you’ll get along with very very well
Like that’s a different level of happiness or energy boost right,
And the biggest soul drainer… The biggest energy drainer is just hanging around the wrong people
I couldn’t tell you what was more draining than me working my d2d sales job right,
Sitting in the car, taking a break from work
And calling one of my friends saying “Yo we’re gonna have this business idea, we’re gonna do this and we’re gonna do that“
Them agreeing with me for like an hour and a half, and it’s kind of annoying even talking about it now bruv fr because
It was like hours of my life that I spent trying to help these other people
Because you care about your friends, and you really like… Want them to listen basically
And work with you and you just want them to be successful as well
And it’s like I don’t even talk to these people anymore and I’ve spent hours of my life trying to help them
Hours of my life trying to help them and hours of my life trying to help myself by talking to them
And it all just went for nothing
Now I don’t even speak to them
They’re not successful
They did nothing with the advice
They don’t even message me like “Yo congratulations, how are things going”
They completely don’t just give a fuck
Like they NEVER were serious
They were never ever serious about making money
BUT I WAS SERIOUS
-Hassan Haider
aka Mr. Overpaid
P.S.
I genuinely just want to help you guys… enjoy