Women and Heartbreaks 💔

Boys whenever I talk about women and heartbreak and these kind of topics

I always get a lot of DMs about this

I don’t know why but

This is one of the most popular topics amongst my audience

Or maybe it’s just something I don’t talk about often

And because I don’t talk about it that often

My audience probably sits there and thinks to themselves

“You know what—I really like when Hassan talks about this because we don’t hear about it from him often”

Whereas you hear me talk all the time about sales and marketing

Or do more, think less

Or mindset stuff

Yada, yada, yada

SO

The point I’m making is

If you’re sat there right now as a broke boy

And you want to get more girls

You’re thinking about dating

You’re thinking about going out, having fun, partying

All these things

I’ve got the perfect answer for you:

WHEN YOU’RE A BROKE GUY

Naturally, your value is going to be really low

You can’t really be a high value man

And be completely broke

It just doesn’t work

Lets say you’re really good at business— you’d be really really rich, that’s the first thing

The second thing,

Let’s say you’re really good at golf—you’d still have lots of money

If you’re really good at driving, and you’re some Formula 1 driver, then you’d be really rich

If you’re really really good looking—then you’d be a model and you’d get paid lots of money and have a big Instagram

Blah blah blah

Right?

If you’re really good at boxing then you’d get paid from boxing

Or you’d get boxing sponsorship deals

Or you could do really expensive coaching

There’s all sorts of things

SO IF YOU HAVE NO MONEY WHATSOEVER

You’re not high value

If you have money

You’ve got to be high-value to some degree (right?)

And you can’t be high value without money—it’s all one part of the “game”

One component

Because at the end of the day, money is just a representation

Or it’s a direct representation of how much value you’ve given to society

So if you’ve not got much money

Then you’re not very valuable okay

So no top girl

Who’s beautiful

Who’s well-educated

Who comes from a good place with loving parents, family, all these things

No good woman right,

Is gonna wanna date a guy who’s not very valuable

Who’s not high level

So what’s really the point of dating if you can’t get your dream girl

Now that’s the first thing

And it’s why in my opinion you genuinely shouldn’t be looking for a girl when you’re on the come-up

There’s just no reason to have a girlfriend when you’re on the hustle—when you’re on the come up

It’s far far far more advantageous to just have a couple hoes you see from time to time

From time to time you go out to a club or something

But there’s just no point in having a girlfriend in that phase

You don’t want girls that are too serious

So when you’re on the come up I recommend almost having girls who are more…

Just a hoe

A girl you can see when you want

A girl you won’t have to take too seriously

You know?

You don’t have to give them much time

You can just see them once a week

Because the problem with having a girlfriend is you see her every day

Or you see her every other day

And it’s just difficult in that sense because you’re seeing them so often and it’s just so much time that you’re spending

Does that make sense?

And when you have a couple girls on your roster

You can see them when you want

You don’t have to take them on dates

You can just invite them to your crib when you want

It just gives you so much more freedom

It gives you so much more… power if that makes sense

And you keep your freedom

And all your mental energy goes towards your work

Whereas when you have a girlfriend,

Every argument

Every conversation can take away your focus

Whereas if you have a hoe you can see her for 2 hours then boom back to work

You can see her again next week

DO YOU SEE WHAT I’M SAYING?

IT’S VERY VERY EFFICIENT

There’s no arguments

She can’t ask you for things

She can’t expect things from you

It’s super super important to understand

So yeah—when you’re on the come-up don’t try to date your dream girl

Because you’re not going to be able to get your dream girl when you’re a little brokie

Your dream girl does not want a little brokie

Your dream girl wants someone who’s a top-level man

So keep this in mind

-Hassan Haider

aka MrOverpaid

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P.S.

If you’re wondering why you my also not be progressing, it could be because of the reason I mention in my video ⬇️

Make sure to watch it, and give me some feedback in the comments of what you thought of the video, like, subscribe

And let me know what you’d like to see me speak about next